BORN FIRST……Typical African Home Set-up

It’s a story about the first son or let’s also include the daughter… And for the record I’m one of them.

These are kids of our young age. Probably, born when the lights were dim, I mean not the best time of our lives. Or maybe it was by mistake.

The first sons carry the burden, they do… Be a role model, sometimes serious family issues, they are decision makers. Some of them become breadwinners in single-parented families. Yeah, that’s the price they are obliged to pay. That’s their role.

They work, not for fulfilling them happiness but for the sacrifice of their families. If they go down, the rest goes down with them.

They pay rent for their families, pay fees for siblings, pay bills.. That’s their role.

Torn between developing their lives, keeping to their ambitions.. And managing their family’s issues. Surprisingly, nothing goes amiss.

They are truly strong people. 👊👊👊

Thumbs up for the first sons and daughters. 👍👍




Look at me when I’m talking to you
You looking at me but I’m looking through you
I see the blood in your eyes
I see the love in disguise
I see the pain hidden in your pride
I see you’re not satisfied
And I don’t see nobody else
I see myself, but

When the mirror is on the wall, and here we are again
Through my rise and fall, you’ve been my only friend
You told me that they can understand this life’s lessons
So why are we here talking to each other again

I see the truth in your lies
Nobody is by your side
But I’m with you when you’re all alone
And you correct me when I’m looking wrong

I see that guilt beneath the shame
I see your soul through your window pane
I see the scars that remain
I see maself, I’m lookin’ at the..

Mirror on the wall, here we are again
Through my rise and fall, you’ve been my only friend
You told me that they can understand the lady I am
So why are we here talking to each other again

Looking at me now I can see my past
Damn, I look just like I don know my potential
Light it up, that’s smoke and mirrors
I even look good in the broken mirror
I see my mama smile, that’s a blessing
I see the change, I see the message
And no message coulda been any clearer
So I’m starting with maself and the…


Mirror on the wall, here we are again

Through my rise and fall you’ve been my only friend.

Probably sexy in a Skirt.

Ladies who are lovers of skirts, probably will not go without a front slit skirt which is sexy. I love the pattern of the woolen skirt.

Thanks for the perfect body shape and size. In a skirt its more perfect. Coupled up with a denim top.

Its even more sexy with the cream colours.

If you agree with me, its more on how you wear it, whether or not it fits. Its not about the size or how much you expose that makes your look better.

Appreciate and embrace the fact that we were made for them.

Write your own ending.


Previously before your happy life started, there was another life. There was that previous episode of your life that you should keep relating to your current one, to derive sense in your current life. As it is in movies, series in particular, the re-running of a previous episode allows to connect between previous and current episode.
It is important that I relate every episode of my life in order to get the whole picture of my life, for me to learn. Some episodes are sad others are a walk in the park, others we love, probably hate their ending, others we choose not to remember. They all count,adding up to a movie. They take their own distinct time.
The first episode of your life, equally important to the current one. Some are shorter, others take long. Depends on a producer’s work, other things can be taken into account.
Previously before you got where you are now, you definitely were somewhere else. The previous may not be pleasing than the current but, the current won’t be, without the previous either.
Its an interconnection of episodes to make a life series. Every episode must end to give way to a new or the next episode.
It’s only in the dictionary where the word ‘current’ appear before ‘previous’ and both words have their meanings. The previous might be different in content, at that time it was important in your eyes.
To bring out the overall theme and meaning of your life. Every single episode is worth your life. Your yesterday as important as your today. Before the start of a new episode you need to re-run the previous one, something to remind you where you are headed and how far you have come from. We never know of the next episode- the future- until we are in it.